This is a subject that a lot of paraplegic males are not to quick to talk about. So I will break the ice. If you are lucky in your accident, then maybe still have full use and control of your sex organ. However in most cases there is problem in the flow. I will speak from my own experiences. I am a T-4 complete Paraplegic. Which means my spinal cord is cut. So signals from the brian and other areas of the body are in some cases are completely cut off or limited. I can’t feel my feet (unless your talking about the ‘hot tub tingle’) that is felt with spinal injury individuals. In my case, my organ does not naturally respond when tingled. However, before getting married to my sexy wife, my mind was tingled sometimes by sexy women that I have seen or dated and wanted to do more. There are many options. There is the rubber band method. You put your organ in this tube and it has a pump that sucks the air out, thereby drawing blood into your organ, causing it to enlargen, then you slide this large rubber band down to the end of your organ shaft, causing it to hold the blood in the organ. Allowing you to utilize your organ. The next type is the injection type. This type can get you in trouble if over used. (Like your organ staying ridged for hours, maybe a day:) It is also expensive and no insurance will pay for it. You purchase it from a local place in your city that mixes stuff for doctors, I don’t think its a CVS pick-up. 🙂 It must stay in the fridge, you must purchase syringe’s, and you inject a certain amount as instructed by your doctor into your member. After that your good to go. There are stimulation methods that require your using excess stimulation. Then there is the implant method. There are two types of implants, a pump type. Yeap, there is a pump type, like the tennis shoe of old. Just press down somewhere near your abdomen and your member enlarges. I never knew how it went back down, seemed to crazy for me to inquire more. Then there is the flexable inplant, that allows your member to become erect, and then normal again. Both implants require surgery. I hope this information helps. What about having a child ? Think you can’t if your a complete, your wrong.
If you wait for someone to work out with you. You might be waiting for a while. So stop waiting. Your health is your health. Sometimes you have to set the tone. Sometimes people don’t know what you can or can not do. So they won’t ask. Do you know what you can or can not do ? What limits have you placed on yourself ? If there is no where to exercise in your area, can you travel to a different area ? What about using local resources ? What is there to do where you live ? Do you need some help ? Lets talk about it.
Don’t think that just because you are limited in some way, finding the right person is impossible. My wife, I met 5 years ago. I have been a paraplegic for over 20 years. Love and Marriage is not based totally on the physical. Communication is the most important thing between two people. Start with being honest with yourself, and with others. Two sets of words from two different sets of people come to mind. Song words, “beauty is only skin deep, yeah yeah yeah”. And “I loved you before I met you”. We all know the type of woman or man that we would like to have. Finding that individual is based upon the limits we place upon our own selfs. First we have to be happy with the person that we are. We should know and feel deep inside that we are loving, strong and self reliant, even if thats in mind, actions or thoughts. We should never give up. We should try to continue to pay attention to how we look act and live our daily lives.
How about some bike riding ? What about some walking on your hands ? Push ups ? Dips? Exercise is very important. Not only for living longer, but for better mental health. Did you know that a doctor can look through your blood and tell if you have been exercising or not. Did you exercise today ? What about yesterday? Need some ideas on different exercises you can do, no matter what your condition is ? Hit me up.
Sometimes we get depressed about life. We don’t have enough money to get by, or do more with our lives. (We think). Sometimes we get mad at a situation or a person that we might want to “touch’ a little, and then get depressed because we can’t just jump up and act at that moment. Sometimes jobs that we know that we are qualified to have, and know that we would be hired if we were not sitting in a chair, pisses us off and sometimes depresses us. What things upset or depress you. Me personally ? I think I am superman, but there are a few things that pop up from time to time in the back of my mind. What about you ?
Have you ever thought about racing across the dessert ? Have you ever thought about driving yourself across the desert, high speed, wind blowing, dirt and dust flying and your just grinning and gunning the motor. If you have, tell me about it. Show some flixs, we love to see them. If you want to make this dream come true. Hit me right now. 🙂